Wow. It never ceases to amaze me how hard it is to actually type a sentence where every single word starts with a capital. It’s one of the things that annoys me to well, if anyone ever writes that on a forum or email or anything to me, I just ignore it. So I’ve got that off my chest lets get onto the Stupid Asian Girl Posers (hereon known as SAGPs).
Pursed lips. V shaped hand signals. What the McNugget is this?
It’s absolutely retarded. Do these girls think they look any ‘cuter’ by pressing their lips in? Ok the peace sign I understand, it has been in the culture for a long time etc. But this I believe is relatively new. And from what I see it’s quite common.
What do I hate about it? It’s entirely unattractive for one. Why do they have to suck their lips into their mouths? Is it due to the inexhaustible vacuum that exists inside their empty heads? I like smiles. Friendly eyes and straight teeth. None of this pursed lips looking sad bull McFries.
Onto something I’m passionate about. A few people know about my little hobbies and most people do not. I am a big fan of human interactions and watching them, participating in them and (of the most importance) seeing how they work. I strongly believe that everything in this world has a social component to it and if you learn to master the way you interact with people and hence the world, you’re onto something good (I won’t say that you’re set for life because it’s not like you can live off it… unless your job involves making connections or similar).
The main premise of this entire hobby is that you CAN control how you interact with other people, and in turn affect how people interact with you. These can be controlled with very simple things. I said this was an introduction so I’ll keep things light to what I know but simple things like (well everybody knows this universally) being needy and wanting something from other people REPELS people and things like relaxing and enjoying yourself ATTRACTS people.
So while much of this is really inside your own head: you have limiting beliefs and strange cognitive structures that you developed, SnackWraps knows why, that make you think in a particular way, most of it can only be detected by your BEHAVIOUR. As a side note, yes, people are incredibly interesting to me and this is why psychology was my choice of degree. Or was that a backwards rationalisation eh? <– I might start writing more about this stuff on my blog later if I feel like it.
Basically, at this point in time I believe that you can communicate anything through body language. That is, you can control how people interact with you, the effects of what you do, whether people listen to you, how to make people happy or how to dominate people entirely through the way you move your body, your eye contact, your voice and a myriad of other modes of communication all entirely grouped into the category of body language.
I’ll give an example and then I’ll finish writing this. Picture an uptight guy who is tense a lot of the time. His arms flail when he’s talking, he doesn’t maintain eye contact, his voice is weak and wavering and he smiles excessively (which isn’t an entirely bad thing). Then picture the guy who is absolutely relaxed, he only moves when he needs to, his eye contact is confident and self assured (which, if you really break it down means his eyes are relaxed and steady and his movements are slow) and his voice is loud and resonant. I’m making a polar description here for two guys but obviously the first guy would be treated as if he didn’t exist and the second guy would be listened to and respected.
What I’m saying is, these things can be changed. You can train your voice, you can practice holding eye contact, you can practice moving slower and you can practice being relaxed. It is entirely possible! Which is why I find the study of human interactions and body language so absolutely fascinating.
Hopefully I’ll continue this line of blog posts in the future so you guys can share the reality that I experience as I experience it.
Love,
Matt
